kalmark
Sep 4 2004, 07:18 AM
Dear Doc!
My mom has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer

We all are still in a shock, and know virtually nothing about this disease. There are still a lot of examinations left to determine how spread the cancer is and such. But in the meantime I started searching for information on the web, so I know a bit more, but there are way too many webpages and I'm not sure which to believe - as not all say the same.
I'd be glad if you could share some sources which supply reliable information on expectations, treatments, a cure if there's any...And happy stories of people who got cured, of course. As we're located in Hungary, Europe, anything American institutes would provide are out of reach ATM, but information would be good from any source.
Thanks.
Mark
Jason
Sep 4 2004, 07:52 AM
I have no information to give, but sorry about the bad news, I hope your mum pulls through and gets better.
BigO
Sep 5 2004, 07:43 AM
As J said...Best of luck to your mom!!!
T-Shirt
Sep 5 2004, 12:23 PM
kalmark
Sep 5 2004, 03:18 PM
Thanks guys! Good to have you all
odie
Sep 5 2004, 04:36 PM
Hey Mark, I hope your mom pulls through. I don't mean to dampen things, but I think the doc is out.... permanently...

and why does this not surprise me in the least bit...
well... you know feelings about... ahh forget it.
Aladoc
Sep 7 2004, 07:57 AM
Not out but had hard drive fgailure and am only on my office computer. I havr several patients with pancreatic cancer who are still alive and doing well. It is a bad cancer but it still does have some who survive. Some by surgery and some by chemotherapy. It depends on whether it is located in the head , body or tail. It is a long and difficult road but it can be beat. Good luck to you. My prayers go with you.
kalmark
Sep 7 2004, 10:23 AM
Thanks again for the prayers and all...
Today we got to know that the cancer spread to one lymph in her neck and with a high possibility to her liver

Originally we only know about the tumor in the head of the pancreas...We are looking at the treatment possibilities right now, searching for the best doctor available and such...How can life change so drastically in two weeks...
Aladoc
Sep 7 2004, 11:28 AM
With distant spread chemotherapy is the onoy reasonable option. Surgery would be unwarranted now . Still chemo has gotten much better . A quote below says it:
Researchers say marimastat appears to benefit some non-metastatic patients and suggest the agent be tested in those patients in combination with gemcitabine. "Five years ago, patients with advanced pancreatic cancer did not have any good treatment options, but gemcitabine and newly engineered drugs like marimastat are giving us hope," says the study leader Simon Bramhall, from the Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Birmingham, England. "These clinical trial results are encouraging and suggest that targeted molecular therapy may benefit some patients."
Mandark
Sep 7 2004, 01:28 PM
My prayers are with you too! My sister lost her husband to that cancer. I am sorry to say that it took him in 6 weeks to the day of diagnosis.
All our hopes and prayers for your mom!! Life is a bitter jagged pill my friend. I wish I could take away her cancer or trade places with her. This life is not all its cracked up to be for me. I would trade with her if I had the chance.
queen bw
Sep 7 2004, 01:51 PM
Though still along way from a cure, cancer is not the death sentence it used to be, I have seen many miracles in that field, I will pray your Mother receives one of them. Best of luck to You and your Mom.
Too Cute
Sep 21 2004, 10:58 AM
I bought a book called
Informed Decisions (linky) when cancer first hit home with us in 2001. When my mom was diagnosed this year, I also lent it to her. It has some common sense approaches to coping with cancer in its various forms and stages, and may prove of some use to you.
I hope with all my heart that your mom gets through this okay - I will keep you in my thoughts.
BigO
Sep 23 2004, 05:03 AM
A dear friend of 20 yrs just lost his wife to cancer, and in next moment I found out one of my good friends that Ive worked with for the last 7 yrs was diagnosed with leukemia. Hes my age.
Live everyday like it was your last.
kalmark
Dec 13 2004, 03:58 PM
Pray for us the following days, and pray as hard as you can please...Pray for a miracle
pappy177
Dec 13 2004, 04:35 PM
I am so sorry kalmark, i do prey everything works out ok.
queen bw
Dec 13 2004, 06:41 PM
Praying here too, kalmark, and often.
uNtOldPAIN
Dec 13 2004, 06:54 PM
Add me in that list...Ill be trying to help out with that miricle prayer too
bull
Dec 13 2004, 07:03 PM
Mine and my families prayers are with you and yours mark.
amandabobanda
Dec 13 2004, 07:15 PM
Sorry, kalmark...my thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
kalmark
Dec 14 2004, 01:22 PM
Thanks you, friends. It's all over now

May she rest in peace
Jason
Dec 14 2004, 02:11 PM
QUOTE(kalmark @ Dec 14 2004, 06:22 PM)
Thanks you, friends. It's all over now

May she rest in peace

I'm very sorry to hear the bad news.
The 1 and only good thing is that your mum is no longer in pain but I know how you feel I lost my nan earlier this year and its hard especially at christmas time.
Remember we are online if you need to escape anytime.
AceHigh
Dec 14 2004, 05:39 PM
Shame on me for not even looking at this thread.

I wish there was something I could do for you bud.
BigO
Dec 14 2004, 09:40 PM
Your moms at peace now and I wish there was something I could say or do to make you feel the same, but time is the only thing that will bring that to you.
So very sorry.
queen bw
Dec 14 2004, 10:46 PM
I am so sorry about your loss, Kalmark. I too recently lost my mother, the pain is unbearable I know, but let you friends and family help you through this and know my prayers are with you and yours.
bull
Dec 15 2004, 12:54 AM
I am deeply sorry for your loss. You can take solice in knowing that she is no longer in pain. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
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