Tonights the night! I'm kickin her out. Got any advice on a good exit line?

give her that casset "50 ways to leave your lover"

Think she'll get the hint?

I better watch it. She'll give me the song "Happiness Is A Warm Gun"

You need some legal advice! Find an attorney, and start the legal process now. You should be advised of the best options you both have, and then proceed. Good luck to you both. Df.

The only advice I can give you from my own experience is, as much as it hurts and as angry as you may be, don't play dirty. You will lose big time in the end. Remember, what goes around comes around. You may not think so going through it, I know I lost my faith during my divorce, which was the nastiest known in two towns, (my ex cheated on me too) but I am a firm beleiver that time tells all truth. You WILL prevail if you play by the rules and laws. (my ex-inlaws hated me in the beginning, of course they believed him, however, now, 4 years later, they have nothing to do with him and visit me and the kids often, that should tell ya something) People (and Judges) will take note of that and she will be the one that is crucified in the end. My dicorce was the biggest lesson in my entire life. It taught me how people REALLY are, (your spouse, so-called friends and family) it taught me the value of money, (I was left a stay at home mom of 6 years with 2 small kids) I had none, no job, no child support no nothing. I was taught that no one gives a shit and your are left on your own holding the bag. I learned how important independence and education is. I learned that so long as you have your health, you are capable to accomplish anything positive you set your mind to. I learned that there is life after divorce and there IS someone to truely love you and treat you with respect and honesty! (so don't judge or categorize every other woman out there you meet, we are not all like that) and the most important thing I learned, is that it is good and healthy to toally let yourself love another, just protect yourself. Don't dwell on her and what she's done to your life because it will end up destroying you. Everyone is entitled to a greiving period, divorce is a death, just don't allow yourself to be swollowed by it. And make sure you have one hell of a laywer! I had to go through two of them before I got a fair fight. If you have kids, no matter what she does, put them and their feelings first!!!! They are the ones who matter now, and keep in mind the divorce is not just about the two of you, it's the demise of a family empire that you've built. Grieve, let your lawyer handle the heavey stuff, enjoy your kids (if any) and find someone that you deserve and who deserves you. I found my true love, he treats me like I'm the only woman in the world, always. I put myself back in school, built my own home, and got a kick ass job. My divorce was held in supreme court for 3 hellish years! I was tortured in every way possible by my ex. I threw some heavy stones of my own in retaliation, and I did think I was gonna lose everything. Fortunately, I had family and a few true friends left, (not to mention Coz, the love of my life and my biggest support) to get me through. In the end, the judge saw all the wrong doings, viciousness and lies on my ex's part. He got himself slammed by the judge and none of what he did or tried to do to me got him anywhere but paying out the ass! I gues what I'm trying to tell you is, live well and life will be good to you. You will be much happier in the end and truely free to laugh at all the stupid things your ex will do in the future, and know you are the one who will come out on top. No intent on my sob story, just can see you are extremely bitter to even post that, as should be, but I don't want to see you or anyone go through what I went through. I can guarantee you'll bleed deep for a long time. If u need to chat, I'm here.

Did you do it Tony?