I dont know if any of you agree.. but wow this is the truth:

NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
By: Garrett Hols from A New Beginning

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.

- This is 100% true!!!!!!

Just a theroy...but did something like this happen to you?
I feel bad for you if it did. Either way, I hope you find that special someone and you two can grow old together

I truly beleive that there is a person for everyone in this whole wide world.

Oh yes, its happened. Many of times my man.. To many times

be easer to read with paragraphs.
and the nice guy made his own bed,should have smiled and walked away.
those girls become trailer trash.

Heh heh. I look at all the people in my school and wonder sometimes.
"who here in 30 years will live in a trailer park or will be cell'ing it up with bubba..."

I had that happen in the past. "You are too good of a friend". It is true but pap is right, you make your own bed. I have dated some damn fine women and am married to one now. We do not always finish last, sometimes we kick a little ass and win. :wink:

My theory has been, if it is meant to be, it will happen. If that don't work and you want it bad enough, make it happen. :P

hey wasn't this posted here a while back? that or i found it, and may or may not have posted it here. yea i found that in my time of grief... helps you to get your thoughts straight

I posted something like this a while ago:
http://www.4peeps.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=1883

and I couldn't agree more. It sucks, but it's true I'm afraid... oh well

i know how u feel

how i deal is by finding happyness in just hugs an beeing there for someone

sad but true

oh and im saving my money for sex at the mo
ive seen this nice girl and she doesnt cost to much so i may try her

That is not sad at all bob. There is alot of satisfaction in being close to someone. Eventually, it pays off. As we get older, the jerks become more jerks, but the nice guys always look better. Just wait til you hear the "I wish I had gone out with you when we were younger". What comes around, goes around. Just seems to take to damn much time. :wink:

By that time there married and settled down and you missed your youth, go figure.

I do that too bob, hugs help allot. But sometimes, its just not enough. You with me on that?